How to Live Out Your Calling Boldly (November to Remember — 11.14.2014)

November 14, 2014 | 7 comments

Today’s Scripture — 11.14.2014

He must become greater; I must become less. ~ John 3:30

How to Live Out Your Calling Boldly

I met her at a retreat in Arkansas.

She’d come from Canada. I’d come from Iowa.

She was 20. I was old enough to be her mother.

She’s s a Starbucks barista. I’m a farmer’s wife, raising crops, pigs and kiddos with my husband.

But we hit it off immediately, and we walked with our arms linked down the streets of Bentonville, Arkansas. Her eyes were pathways to an old soul, shimmering with a deep wisdom. She had an unusual confidence in who she was — not an arrogant “I’m a real somebody,” but a God-fidence that made her more courageous than I was at that age — maybe even than I am now. It was so beautiful to see her whole self agreeing with God — that she was made in His image. She wasn’t afraid to unleash her gifts in the world, and I believe that’s how God intended it.

She was walking gospel.

Her name is Aliza. 

Aliza is the blonde woman next to me, front row.

Aliza is the blonde woman next to me, front row.

In the months that have passed, Aliza and I have stayed in touch. She’s half my age, yet manages to mentor me with her life, her words, her art. (Scroll down to see the beautiful image she created to illustrate this post!)

A couple weeks ago, Aliza posted some words on Instagram that have stuck with me:

“I am imagining a world where we live out our callings to their fullest potential, where success doesn’t look like huge numbers or giant followings but a life lived out in humility, patience and love. I think Jesus measures success differently than we do. I want to live out my calling in the biggest way I can, but in the smallest way possible – the kind of small where I always find myself in front of Jesus. The soundtrack playing in my head this morning: patience, humility, love. I hope we live our callings big but always go back to being small.”

Her words bubbled to the surface again this morning, when I spent time in John 3:30: “He must become greater; I must become less.” John the Baptist was saying, in essence: “I was the opening act, but I’m going to give up the spotlight now, because the Main Attraction is now in the building.”

I love John’s words. They model great humility for all of us.

But those very words are dangerous, if they are interpreted in a way that encourages us to be so small, as to disappear.

It can be easy to shrink into timid ways. It can be easy to misinterpret humility. I’ve gone through times where I’ve hid my lit under a bushel, afraid to shine.

But the gospel doesn’t call you to run into hiding. You are light, the Bible says, like a city on a hill that cannot be hidden.

We ought to be small in the right ways — humble, but not hidden. John 3:30 is a call to step out of the spotlight, but it’s not an excuse for timidity.

So how do we live our lives more boldly?

1 – By using our gifts without timidity or apology.

2 – By never robbing the spotlight from the Main Attraction.

3 – By giving God all the glory.

4 – By remembering that while a person can climb too high, she can never bow too low.

I think Aliza nailed it:

“I want to live out my calling in the biggest way I can, but in the smallest way possible — the kind of small where I always find myself in front of Jesus.”

I want to be found facing Jesus, looking to Him, and no one else.

Dear God, Grant us the courage to be big in You alone. May all we do bring You glory. And may You make Yourself the Main Attraction, so that when people look at us, they ultimately see You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”


Meet Aliza Latta | Artist, Dreamer, Adventurer

Aliza has an online shop called choose brave where she sells her hand-lettered art. Most of her prints sell for only $10-12 a piece.

It’s a joy to share some of her work here. We are so delighted to watch her step boldly into her calling, while keeping the Main Thing the Main Thing. Aliza Latta? We see Jesus in you.

Find Aliza’s shop by clicking here.

Learn more about Aliza by clicking here. 

 Say hello to Aliza in the comments. And tell us what John 3:30 means to you.

A few of my favorite hand-lettered prints made by Aliza

You can find all of these at her shop.


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Let this be the November that we remember who we really are: Loved. Preapproved. His.

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by | November 14, 2014 | 7 comments


  1. Lynn D. Morrissey

    Hello Aliza (love your name!)
    Any friend of Jennifer’s…..!!! You, your artwork, and your attitude are just lovely. That you are living out your calling is a beautiful thing–living in the way that God designed you to reflect a facet of His magnificent glory. John 3:30 is such a meaningful, powerful verse–a way to live transparently so that I am so reflecting the Savior that I fade to the background, and all people can see is HIM shining through. I surely fail at this often, but every once in a while, someone tells me she has been touched by Him (based on something I’ve done), and I’m so taken aback. I wasn’t aware that I had done a thing. And it’s then that my heart bows low, and I realize I have decreased and He has increased. Of course, He doesn’t need to increase one little bit. He is already greater than great. But I want others to have that perception, because *I* have not gotten in the way of Him. Hope that is making sense. Keep disappearing Aliza. I am seeing Him in you and Jennifer!

  2. Anne Marie Hermanns

    These words hit my heart deeply today…an answered prayer, really. Thank you for sharing <3

  3. Jennifer Frisbie

    “I was the opening act, but I’m going to give up the spotlight now, because the Main Attraction is now in the building.” – Oh, wow – that just gave me goosebumps. I remember reading her words on Instagram and I appreciate you for bringing that to light again. It’s always nice to have someone help you “re-remember.” 😉

  4. Beth

    I have been using the verse from John 3:30 often these days so I really appreciated your wisdom here, Jennifer. Always appreciate your wisdom. Much love .xoxo

  5. Katie Kump

    Such a huge and humbled YES to all of this. Thank you to both of you for living this out and for leading the way. Love you, Aliza. Thank you for serving us because your life is wrapped up in serving Jesus. Sweet Jennifer, you too. xxxooo

  6. Jillie

    Hi Aliza…What a pretty name! John 3:30? It also says to me that while John (the Baptist) sought to “hide himself” behind The Greater One, I’m sure he lived out his calling too. While in that prison cell, unknowingly waiting to be beheaded, can I say that I’m certain he continued to point the way to his cousin, his Messiah? That he didn’t shrink away from his purpose? That he continued to make Jesus known to anyone around him there?

  7. Mei L. Au

    Always love to cheer on a fellow Canadian, especially one who is sold out to Jesus! So encouraged whenever I meet someone so young and already has such a huge heart for Christ. I wish I had been at that age. It took me almost another 20 years before I realized that Jesus is who I need. Aliza, your work is beautiful and so are you!


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